Knowing that you want to get your girlfriend back is not enough. Instead of sulking endlessly and wasting all your time thinking about what went wrong, be a man and take some initiative. Show her what you are made of and have her back in your arms once again with these six suave moves.
First and foremost, try to bridge the gap. Talk about your feelings or the things that concern you both. If your relationship used to put emphasis on the woman doing most of the talking, it’s high time you started talking too. The key is to keep the lines of communication open. You can do this by sending an e-mail, text message, or calling her. The world today emphasizes the importance of communication in any way possible so there is no reason for you not to contact her. She might find it very romantic if you sent her roses with a card or note that talks about your feelings for her. It may sound cheesy to some (and to you), but these gestures are greatly by your girl.
Don’t forget the important numbers, whether that’s her telephone number or her father’s birthday. Women place a great deal of significance on dates and numbers that have deep meaning to her. If you forgot her birthday before, surprise her with your memory on her next birthday. If you cannot remember the day you two officially became a couple, exhaust all resources to figure that one out. Giving importance to the things that are representations of your relationship means giving value to the special link between the two of you. If you master all the dates and numbers pertinent to your relationship, you just might get your girlfriend back.
And for Heaven’s sake, do not scare her way by becoming a stalker! Communication is good, but hounding her with phone calls, even late night ones, might freak her out and cause her to consider your actions as hopeless or creepy instead of sincere. Instead of potentially scaring her away, spend your time improving yourself. Never mind the reason for the break-up or the party that started the argument, they were uncontrollable reasons. What’s done is done. Rely upon the positive things the two of you share and strengthen the commonalities that made you fall in love with each other in the first place. Discard the things that are detrimental to your relationship. An item or subject or past memory that often leads to an argument when it’s brought up is not workth the effort. Get rid of it or forget about it.
The most important thing you can do is to remain positive. Optimism can go a long way. If you believe that everything will be alright, then there is a good chance it could be and in the end, if the relationship is not able to be salvaged, try to identify and learn from your mistakes.
Getting a girlfriend to come back and commit again may be hard, but it is possible. There are many ways to accomplish this, but the right approach is personalized and unique to you and your ex-girlfriend and your situation.